Loads – very high, unrealistic consumption peaks

You might also want to take a look at this thread, where I posted about my problem with it.
This one is only about Virtual Devices (AC load) in NodeRed, though.

https://community.victronenergy.com/t/ac-load-spikes-in-vrm/58738/6

It includes both links with information and explanations/solutions.
It’s worth bearing in mind, anyway, even though the latest beta, ~27, has now added OS-level “filtering” for these events for the second time.
For the non-NodeRed things, I hope the changes in ~21 and ~27 are enough for you, since unfortunately you have no control over those yourselves.