What you may find in the morning with your battery depleted is that the battery is at say 12V and your panels can generate the required 17V to get started. Once started they have to stay 1V higher than the battery to keep working. When you disconnect them and try and restart later in the day, the battery will be at a higher voltage and may well retain surface charge for a while so it may be at 13.5V or 14.0V and the panels can not then generate the required 18.5V or 19.0V to restart.
You should consider connecting your panels in series, but I would advise caution because they are now getting to a higher voltage with 3 in series.
Another option would be to add some load on the battery to remove any surface charge and see if this reduced the voltage and allowed the solar to restart.
So today I used a different regulator with different panels,to ensure I get some power into the battery, although it has not really increased 12.4 last night and 12.4, the fridge is reading.
I put 2 100 panels in series, got 35v but the Samartsolar did not turn on, still flashing the blue light.
I added a 3rd panel got 46v then the Samartsolar turned on
Now I have a solid blue light
Only getting 4w input.
But we have very thick cloud.
At least I know the issue, so looks like in series for the winter.