I did, sort of..
I started with watching all the YouTube videos from Harold Halewijn and off grid centrum. Next where the victron training videos especially the one from South Africa about setting up a 3 phase system. Read the ess manual and documentation in the victron website.
As you said. It is almost too complex to understand, even with almost 42 years of experience in engineering of ship building and all what is connected.
Also did everything in my own house incl the electrical system and replacement of my 3 phase breaker cabinet.
Even than⌠It is a lot of information. Really a lot. Had intensive communication with some electrical engineers in shipbuilding mostly about cable sizes and breaker selection so i was pretty sure about the safety side. But the victron system is absolutely not customer friendly. I would not even recommend it to a non technical person if it is installed by a professional because it needs constant monitoring and adjustment.