You are right, today I did not look into kernel messages. I had before on earlier investigations. But dmesg is clean apart from startup messages.
However I found two links that suggest grounding issues. The first one is this one where Wilm says that a cheap USB-isolater did the trick:
The second one suggested not to use terminal 10 at the Grid Meter.
I am not an EMI expert at all, but it could problably explain why it happens under high loads. If the Grid meter picks up EMI, and passes it on to the Cerbo, that could be a problem.