First of all: Merry christmas!
On topic, to the thread starter: No offence, but if someone isn’t familiar with the essentials like factor 1.0 rule, i would strongly suggest him to take into account to get help from an experienced person to wire and configure your system.
From my perspective, with only less than 3kW of solar power, best option efficiencywise would be a solar charger directly connected to the battery system. It is cheap an reliable and moreover makes your system able to “black start” after a long grid loss with your battery has ran out of power. All of like 1.0 rule and many more is gone with that, the MP II will handle everything on it’s own terms.
The more complex stuff like switching or splitting between ac in and out may and will fail sometimes, don’t do that unless you’re highly experienced with these things - your initial question and even more the further ones are showing, you’re not that much into this. I’m sorry, wanna tell you this to protect you from expensive and dangerous failures.
Hint: Consider to install a rechargable battery with seperate smps for your gx devices power supply, if you have one in use. With that installed, the heart of your system keeps beating long enougth even when your ess has ran out off power until the solar power comes back alive next morning. As soon as the charger has pushed enougth energy into the system, it will restart by itself.
Good luck!