There are quite a few existing topics on this subject already. The RS inverter only series does this already but not the grid attached model.
It is more complicated than it sounds so not a simple software update.
A true parallel and/or 3 phase systems will completely shutdown in case on an error in any of the installed inverters.
If you think to a system with 2 MP-II working independently, it is possible with the help of an automatic transfer switch, but still, the two inverters will have to work continouosly and therefore prone to defects.
Plenty of ATS ready-made boxes available or, if you prefer, specialized modules and put it together with a pair of contactors.
All modules have a generator remote start signal that could be used to effectively start the second MP-II.
To my knowledge, if you also want VRM monitoring for this particular usage, you will need 2 individual GX devices, whether built into MP-II or external.